Trials come to us for a variety of reasons. Some trials come because we caused it, some we didn't cause. Some trials we can do something about. Some we seeming can't avoid.

The intensity and length of the trial is often ....  in our minds. Once we accept a trial, it cease being a trial. As long as we fight the trial in our minds, we .... Once we accept the trial, we begin to say, "This is life, how can I make the best of it."